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30 questions to start your story

Not sure where to begin? Use these prompts at the dinner table, on a phone call with a grandparent, or to prepare for your consultation. Print the page and keep it handy.

Chapter One

Where It Began

  1. What is the earliest memory you can still picture clearly?
  2. Describe the house you grew up in. What did it smell like?
  3. What were your parents like when you were small?
  4. What games did you play, and who did you play them with?
  5. Is there a family story you heard over and over as a child?
  6. What did a typical Sunday look like in your home?

Chapter Two

Growing Up

  1. Who was your favorite teacher, and why?
  2. What music, songs or radio shows remind you of being young?
  3. What was your first job, and what did it pay?
  4. What is something you got in trouble for that still makes you laugh?
  5. Who was your best friend, and what did you do together?
  6. What did you dream of becoming?

Chapter Three

Love & Family

  1. How did you meet the love of your life?
  2. What do you remember about your wedding day, or the day you knew?
  3. What was it like to become a parent or grandparent?
  4. What family traditions do you most want to pass on?
  5. Which family recipe holds the most memories, and why?
  6. What is the best advice you ever received about love?

Chapter Four

Work & Purpose

  1. What work are you proudest of?
  2. Who believed in you before you believed in yourself?
  3. What was the hardest decision you ever had to make?
  4. Describe a moment when everything changed direction.
  5. What did you learn from a failure that you would not trade?
  6. What do you wish you had known at twenty-five?

Chapter Five

Wisdom to Pass Down

  1. What are you most grateful for?
  2. How would you like to be remembered?
  3. What would you tell your great-grandchildren if they could hear you today?
  4. What do you believe makes a good life?
  5. Which choices shaped the direction of your life the most?
  6. If your life were a book, what would you title it?

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